Synchronicity: Messages From The Field Of Love
Synchronicity: Messages From The Field Of Love
Real Love Diet Blog
There’s a quote I love: “Synchronicity is God’s way of remaining anonymous.” Whoever said it understood something essential—love never leaves, spirit never dies, and the veil between worlds is thinner than we think.
In the Real Love Diet, we don’t strain to prove these truths. We simply ask for winks—and remain open enough to receive them.
A Wink from My Brother
I am an identical twin, and growing up, my eldest brother Billy could never tell my twin sister and me apart. He didn’t even try. He simply called me “Twin.” Twin, go get me a Coke. Twin, do this. Twin, do that. He bossed me around, yes—but he was a sweetheart.
Billy passed away in his early fifties. When I received the call that he only had days to live, I flew from Santa Monica to Providence, Rhode Island to be with him. I spent his final day massaging his feet, telling him how loved he was, and listening as my siblings called in one by one to say goodbye. Before I left, I whispered, Billy, give me a wink from the other side. Let me know everything is A-OK.
He passed on Wednesday.
That Saturday, back in Santa Monica, I gave a public talk. Intuition nudged me to speak with two women sitting in the front row. Afterward, I asked them about themselves. They smiled and said they were identical twins from Providence, Rhode Island.
Two days after my brother died. Identical twins. From Providence. Sitting right in front of me.
Of course he sent me twins. He always called me Twin.
That was my wink.
A Wink from My Mother
Years later, on October 9th—my mother’s birthday—I meditated and asked again, Mom, give me a wink.
That evening, I gave a talk in Beverly Hills. During my share, I spoke about my upbringing and my family. At that time in her life, my mother was raising nine children, and I shared how deeply grateful I was that she had a Jamaican nanny living with us, helping care for us and hold our busy household together.
After the talk, a woman approached me with tears in her eyes and said she had lived next door to my mother in Omaha, Nebraska—and that she was the one who found my mother’s Jamaican nanny. She told me she had photos of my siblings and me collecting Easter eggs in her backyard. She knew my family, our home, and our story.
On my mother’s birthday.
That was my wink from my mother.
What the Real Love Diet Teaches Us
We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience. This lifetime is just one pearl on a long, beautiful string of pearls. Each life adds meaning. Each love adds depth. Nothing is wasted, and nothing is ever lost.
Spirit doesn’t end. Love doesn’t disappear. Connection doesn’t break. Our loved ones don’t leave us—they simply change form. There is no need to live in fear or cling to grief. They live on in our hearts, our intuition, our memories, and in moments of synchronicity.
How to Align with Synchronicity
Ask for winks
Remain open-minded
Slow down
Trust your intuition
Release fear
Notice patterns rather than proof
Practice gratitude
Synchronicity is subtle. It whispers. It requires openness.
Nothing real is ever lost. Love is eternal. The veil is thin. And God—Love, Spirit, the Universe—often prefers to remain anonymous.
But if you ask, and stay open, you’ll begin to see the signs everywhere.
✨ Ask for your wink. ✨
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