🌸 The Magic Wand of Agency
🌸 The Magic Wand of Agency
Have you ever felt like life had you on the wrong channel?
Like no matter how hard you tried, you couldn’t change the storyline?
Maybe you’ve felt stuck — in a job, a relationship, or a routine — repeating scenes that no longer feel like who you truly are.
Or maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, “This is just how my life is.”
We’ve all been there — waiting for something or someone to rescue us, to rewrite the script.
But here’s the truth: the pen has always been in our hands.
We have agency — the capacity to act, to choose, to imagine something better.
And the moment we remember that truth, everything begins to shift.
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space.
In that space is our power to choose our response.
In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
— Viktor Frankl
Some of us grew up in chaos, or in homes where love felt conditional.
Some of us were told we weren’t enough, or that our path was already written.
But even in those moments — even there — we hold the most powerful tool of all: choice.
We can choose to stay or leave a relationship that no longer nourishes us.
We can choose to walk away from a job that drains our spirit.
We can choose to begin again somewhere that lights up our hearts.
We can choose to imagine more for ourselves — and that imagination is our magic wand.
In my workshops, Fixed Up in Four Weeks, we explore how we are not victims of circumstance but architects of consciousness.
The “love diet” begins in the mind — one thought at a time. When we rehearse better thoughts, we invite better feelings, and better actions naturally follow.
We don’t have to settle for “so-so.”
We can have a “hell yes” life.
It doesn’t start with luck — it starts with agency.
“When we reclaim our agency, we stop waiting for life to happen and start creating it.
Real love begins the moment we remember we are the authors, not the audience.”
— The Real Love Diet
đź’— Three Gentle Reminders
Our thoughts are our architects. Let’s choose the ones that build peace, joy, and possibility.
Our imagination is our magic wand. Let’s wave it daily — visualizing what we want, not what we fear.
Our choices create our freedom. Every yes, every no, every pause is power.
Good thoughts create good feelings.
Good feelings create inspired action.
And inspired action creates a delicious life — one decision at a time.
The truth is simple and sacred: our future is in our own hands.
🌸 Real Love Diet Reflection
This is what The Real Love Diet is all about — feeding our minds with love, not fear.
When we shift from “I can’t” to “I can imagine,” we awaken the divine agency within us.
Join us in the Real Love Lounge on YouTube, where we practice this truth together — feeding the good wolf, strengthening the love frequency, and creating “hell yes” lives rooted in joy, purpose, and grace.
Because real love always begins within —
and the choices we make today.
See you Sunday, November 2nd for “Real Love Lounge” at 6:30pm to learn how to take your agency back. The link is here https://youtube.com/live/DDps06AYH5U?feature=share